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You think you know who you are, but do you really? You know you are Type A, aggressive, demanding, sometimes on the edge of exploding. You know you are an Aries, alive with creative ideas you just must express. “I think that the reason that it is important to understand these reactions is that every single human relies on sensory information to guide decisions every day,” says Dunn. “If we can understand the reactions it can help us to become more accepting of each other.” Each day life pummels us with sensory experiences from the moment our alarm clock starts the day, says Dunn, but people's reactions to that experience vary wildly. For instance one person might love the feeling of walking on a beach, while another might find the grittiness of the sand stressful. One person might love loud concerts while such events may unsettle another. Some people are fussy eaters, while others need the buzz of new flavors. How folks react to those experiences puts them in one of four groups: seekers, bystanders, avoiders and sensors. Dunn's books aims to help readers figure which group they belong to and how that can make life more fulfilling. Avoiders, as the term suggests, make their lives manageable by avoiding unnecessary sensory experiences. They choose orderly, scheduled lives. They’ll keep the curtains drawn in the day, leave a room if it gets crowded, and eat a limited range of foods. Sensors notice everything and have clear ideas about how to handle situations, They have adjusted well to their sensory experiences, understanding their reactions to certain experiences and building their lives around them. But of course these are broad categories, and Dunn cautions that a person may fall into different categories for different senses. Sensory profiling may show they are a seeker for one sense, yet an avoider for another. Dunn believes that understanding your own sensory responses and those of your spouse, co-workers and children, can help ease the path through life. That’s because once identified, the behaviour patterns are easy to spot, allowing people to find ways to find solutions to flash points in relationships. Says Dunn: “It is not abstract and obscure. We can see it in our husband and our kids and if we understand it, it turns these reactions from irritating into charming.”
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